Grant David Barnes
1988 - 2022
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Rey posted a condolence
Friday, July 8, 2022
All I can truly say is that writing this tribute is hard, but sometimes in life you ain't gotta like it, you just have to do it.
There are some words that come to mind to describe Grant: knowledgeable, civilized, down to earth, thoughtful and genuine, just to mention but a few. He also had an acquired sense of humor that we shared, and it's so true that he did have a subtle eccentricity that Karen Shay mentioned.
We always knew when it was time to call each other, even though we would talk every 1 to 3 months. Even if it had been a while, it felt short to us and it's probably because our conversations were a good 2 to 3 hours long. Grant and I saw eye to eye on a lot of things and we were always able to make sense of all kinds of things that seem so complicated to others. We were always able to vent and sharpen each others countenances no matter what the issue was.
Our conversations were always a pleasure and a blessing that would sustain and reinforce us to go back into the world until the next 1 to 3 months.
God works in mysterious ways, He brought Grant and I together, and we knew that and were grateful to Him for that.
Even though Grant is going to be greatly missed. The burden is on the living, so we must continue to march on strong. I'm sure that that is what Grant would want us to do.
If anyone's interested in what brought Grant and I together, check out the videos on this website: www.youwillnotlose.com
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Flo Lewis posted a condolence
Monday, May 9, 2022
Sincere condolences to Grant's parents, family, and friends
May your sweet memories and love carry you through this very difficult time
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Holly posted a condolence
Friday, May 6, 2022
My dear friend Grant... I had been thinking about you for weeks and was going to message you any day now.
I learned about your passing yesterday and I am in shock. Moving through the emotions as one does when hit with news that is surreal and doesn't ring true. I am happy, honoured and thankful that you have been in my life over the years. Connecting with me at the oddest times and sending me mail all the way here in Alberta after I moved. Staying in touch with our "out there" conversations. I am surprised by how deeply affected I am by your passing... death is a normal part of living, it is one and the same and yet I am so sad. I read through others memories, looked at photos and thought to myself how much of a character you were. How full and vibrant your life had been and how I wish you could experience more but you are having a different experience. I can hear your laughter and the way you speak vividly... I don't know what else to say... keep it cool out there in the Universe.
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Tracey G lit a candle
Friday, May 6, 2022
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To my special Shelia ~ sincerest condolences to you and yours. hugs x0
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Thursday, May 5, 2022
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Thanks for all the good times. And they were all good times.
Phil, Maggie, and Scott; words cannot express my condolences. Grant had such an incredible impact on the people he touched and he will be missed dearly.
Rest in power bro.
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Thursday, May 5, 2022
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Grant Barnes... Grant was a hoopy frood that, regrettably, I never sassed! Seriously gifted and a serious gift. Balanced (as in left and right brain). Easily loved and loved easily.
I was enduring a lot of stress leading up to and at the time of Grant's departure. I could not realize the illusion and vanity of my suffering. You may know that this was a weight for Grant.
All of us like sheep have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way; but the LORD has caused the iniquity of us all to fall on Him (Isaiah 53:6)
Long ago he advised me: "Repent and ask for forgiveness. It's that simple!" Grant, now that you're gone, it's all in perspective. I regret that I wasn't able to be better and more than this... to recognize how fortunate I was!
What an awesome blessing being in love was! So the laughs we shared quell by tears (and migraines) because I was apprehensive when it came to faith in love and good fortune and I was constantly fighting.
Grant offered openings to resolve this and opportunities to feel alive rather than just be. He saw things clearly, communicated clearly, and gave good input. I didn't always see it or respect it or benefit from it. Still, I'm privy!
A strong belief in the magic of the dissolution of suffering in the presence of Love was somewhere within me, but it was craftily concealed. We are all seekers. Grant was steadfast, and stoic.
My hope is that a source of power that is needed to move forward will open, through belief. My expectation is that Grant Barnes will always be remembered, and loved, joyfully and painfully...
Among much sad regret, we'll always be gratefully glad that we met. Still, here's to a "v wack end to such a wonderful, beautiful story," G! A million songs come to me as soundtrack for this post, so let's just go with a prayer:
I pray that this terrible, heart-gut-wrenching and head-splitting loss will bring us closer to the reality of God's love and to the reality of belonging, purpose, and oneness.
Farewell, Grant The Great!
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Fez ViraniJ6Ryn lit a candle
Wednesday, May 4, 2022
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My deepest condolences for your tremendous lose, My heart aches for you. May you find peace in this impossible time.
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Alison Barnes uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, May 3, 2022
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Just a few of my favourite memories. Grant you may be gone but you will never be forgotten. We shared some fun times and you were very special to me. Love Alison
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Xenia lit a candle
Tuesday, May 3, 2022
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It was an honour to have gotten to have some great conversations with Grant and to spend time with him on the farm. My deep condolences and sympathies to all those who have loved him and appreciated him. May he live on in good memories.
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Debbie Walsh posted a condolence
Monday, May 2, 2022
Maggie, Phil, Scott & family, Sending our
Deepest Condolences to all of you and the
McNab family on the loss of Grant. Our hearts are with you during this very difficult time. Love Debbie, Peter, Nicole, Mom, Joey, Chris.
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Karen Shay posted a condolence
Monday, May 2, 2022
Grant, you were an incredibly kind and gentle person, with a quick wit and many a clever comeback. It's hard to believe I won't be hearing from you again, or able to check in and see how you're doing. You went through life with a subtle eccentricity and quiet personal curiosity which I admired. Grant, I wish we could have more time on earth together. You'll be sorely missed and the impact of your loss is felt deeply. I'm so lucky we met and I got to know you.
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Les Repczak lit a candle
Monday, May 2, 2022
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Our deepest condolences to your family, Phil. May God let Grant Eternal Peace- from Margaret and Les Repczak.
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Phil Barnes uploaded photo(s)
Monday, May 2, 2022
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There are so many great pics of Grant enjoying life that I had to share a few more
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Meghan uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, May 1, 2022
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Words can't really capture the depth of how much I miss Grant, how important he was to me over the more than 15 years that we knew each other. I am forever grateful for the adventures, love and growth we shared, from meeting as fresh-faced teens, growing up together, going through so many firsts together, moving across the province and back, always finding ways to laugh and dance even when things were tough. I would do anything to hear that infectious laugh light up a room again!
There is a quote that has been bringing me much comfort during this challenging time of mourning: "grief is love with no place to go anymore." The love I held for Grant, and will always hold for him, his memory and legacy, is deep. The grief I hold with his passing is deep, too. However it is a grief made much lighter to carry through the amazing connections and community Grant brought together. He and his family are family to me, and his impact will be felt for a very long time through the tapestry of people he wove together. I love you Grant, you may be gone but will never be forgotten.
Maggie, Phil, Scott, Lanny, Vera, Sheila, and all the rest of the beautiful family that loved Grant as I did: I'm so sorry, and I'm here for you however I can be. <3
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Tony Steeves posted a condolence
Sunday, May 1, 2022
Phil,Maggie,Scott. We are so deeply sorry to hear of Grants passing. Our deepest condolences.
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Steve & Loretta lit a candle
Sunday, May 1, 2022
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Our hearts ache for the loss of Grant. Pleae accept our deepest sympathies Phil, Maggie Scott & your entire family.
We wish you peace & comfort as you grieve, & know that we are always hear for you. Our Prayers & Blessings to you all at this time & always. Love, Steve & Loretta
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Tilly and Ron lit a candle
Sunday, May 1, 2022
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Such a fine young man with a special twinkle in his eyes. May the memories of his lifetime shared together bring courage and strength during this difficult time. Grant was deeply loved, will be greatly missed and never forgotten. Condolences and deepest sympathies to Maggie, Phil and Scott and all the families.
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Paul M'Keown posted a condolence
Sunday, May 1, 2022
I remember coming home to my house in White Rock, BC and seeing the light on the answering machine indicating I had a message. It was from Phil. I can still hear his voice today saying ‘Hey Paul. I’m a Dad!’ It would be a number of years before I would meet Grant and his brother Scott but when I did, I could see what made Phil and Maggie proud. The journey ahead is a long one, but fond memories will get them, and us, there. God Bless, Grant. And rest well.
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Phil Barnes uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, April 30, 2022
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The family of Grant David Barnes uploaded a photo
Saturday, April 30, 2022
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