Kelley Ann Van den Hoven
1967 - 2021
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Mark Goff posted a condolence
Thursday, April 18, 2024
I unfortunately have just come across this devastating story. I send my sincere condolences to Kevin, Rene, Michelle and her parents Viola and Ron! Many memories through our teens . Please never forget her!
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Renee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 9, 2021
Where to begin. To say this has left a huge hole in my heart is an understatement! I’ve lost my big sister, my best friend! I will miss so much about you Kelley; our tea chats, puzzle making, craft days, shopping days to get in those HomeSense fixes. You were my own personal Ann Landers, my Dr Phil, my Vera Wang, my Joanna Gaines. I could tell you anything and everything you grounded me, you set me straight when I seemed lost or uncertain in all aspects of my life.
You inspired me every day with your strength, your courage, your bravery and your fight as you fought this horrible disease! As you took one step forward the cancer would knock you two steps back but you still never gave up! You kept fighting! Like the warrior you are!! You fought and fought through multiple surgeries, chemo and radiation treatments and tons of horrible side effects. You selflessly went through a clinical trial cancer procedure with your brain mets knowing deep down inside it wasn’t going to help you but it was going to help millions and millions of women in the future. I can’t be more proud of you to tell you, you did it!
The Drs at Sunnybrook have advised Neil that the paper they wrote about focused ultrasound in breast cancer metastasis was accepted for publication. This publication will lead to many trials launched around the world and is the first step towards this treatment becoming more widely available. You have made history Sis!
We grew up together being only 11 months apart, twins the hard way mom would always say. And yes I know, I always reminded everyone you were actually the oldest, this will probably never change. :) xo
We were always known as twins and we hated that, but who could help not thinking that when mom dressed us in exactly the same outfits, oh they were different colours of course, like that made it right. Truth be told, I’m honoured and extremely proud beyond words to be your “twin” xo
All our memories of our younger years growing up; teasing Kev, getting in trouble, which led to kneeling in corners, camping, our shared bedrooms with posters everywhere of our future husbands Starsky & Hutch and Shaun Cassidy, the giggles and secrets we shared between those walls will forever be in my heart. All our family holidays together, shopping days, trips, talks, and crafting together; all these memories I will cherish and use to help me through this healing process of losing you.
I spend nights staring up at the ceiling praying & hoping to see you. If you’re there please give me a sign. I want you to visit me often .. I will never stop needing you.
Rest In Peace my beautiful Sister.
Until we meet again, save me a seat at the crafting table so we can continue where we left off.
I Love You!
XOXO
Forever, Your Roxy <3
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Tuesday, September 7, 2021
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I’d like to begin by expressing my deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences to Neil, and to Kelley’s family. May you find comfort in knowing you are not alone in your grief, you are surrounded by those who knew and loved her. She was such a beautiful person... she touched so many lives and will be greatly missed.
My friendship with Kelley stemmed from our work as nurse colleagues at Bowmanville hospital in ‘99-2009. I always enjoyed the night shifts that we worked together in the early days. It wasn’t “work” when Kelley was there. She was a kind and gentle nurse, with a special sense of humour and a generous heart. She’d tell funny stories about her dog Harley then, and invited us to a pot-luck gathering at her beautiful log house. As time went on, we shared monthly lunch or dinner get-togethers, coffee catch-ups, Christmas dances and kayaking. A few of us nurses went camping one summer, oh what fun we had! I will treasure the memories of our friendship always.
Rest in peace my dear friend.
Love Helen xo
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The Gray Family donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Sunday, September 5, 2021
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John van den Hoven uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, September 4, 2021
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We are sharing our favourite pictures of Kelley - her style, her fur babies and their devotion to her, and Kelley and Opa, together now in Heaven.
We are awed by Kelley's strength, courage, determination and grace throughout her long fight with cancer.
Kelley, may you rest in peace. Even though you were taken from us much too soon, we will hold you in our hearts forever.
Love,
John, Marissa, Kristen and Daniel
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Wolak Family donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Saturday, September 4, 2021
Dear Michelle and family
May fond memories of your sister bring you comfort during this hard time in your life. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Elana Stevens lit a candle
Saturday, September 4, 2021
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Michelle, Mike, Bella and Mateo,
Our deepest condolences for your family’s loss. We have gotten to know Kelly over the last few years through the wonderful stories you’ve shared with us. Her strength and courage, determination to stay active and creativity throughout was an incredible inspiration to those around her. Kelly is part of an incredible family and her memory will live on forever.
Sending you all love from the Stevens Family
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Friday, September 3, 2021
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I had the privilege of going to nursing school with Kelley, graduating in 1992 from DC. Neil & Robert, our husbands, worked together at GM, so we had that connection, too. What struck me about Kelley was her beauty, both outward & inner. She always had a kind word to say! We didn't get to work together, as Kelley was at Lakeridge Health Bowmanville, myself at Oshawa. The last time I saw Kelley was in November 2018 at our 25th work anniversary celebration. Our deepest condolences to you, Neil, and her whole family on the loss of such a precious woman. Love, Ava & Robert Pelz♥️
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Michelle Rodriguez lit a candle
Tuesday, August 31, 2021
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My beautiful Kelley there are no words to describe the hole I feel in my heart. It has been two weeks since you passed away and I still cannot believe that you are gone. I pick up the phone to call or text you every day. I know in my heart we had to let you go and I pray you will guide us all on how to move forward.
Kelley had asked me to share this poem to help all of us...
Reading: “SHE IS GONE” BY DAVID HARKINS
You can shed tears that I am gone
Or you can smile because I have lived
You can close your eyes and pray that I will come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all that I have left
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see me
Or you can be full of the love that we shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
You can remember me and only that I am gone
Or you can cherish my memory and let it live on
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
Or you can do what I would want: smile, open your eyes, remember me, love and go on for I am in all of you.
I miss you. I love you. Watch over us and protect us.
All my love,
Michelle
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Michelle and Mike Rodriguez donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Tuesday, August 31, 2021
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Dolly and Eric Konzelmann donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Thursday, August 26, 2021
To a beautiful lady we will miss her. Always here for you Neil, anytime.
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Dolly Konzelmann lit a candle
Thursday, August 26, 2021
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Neil,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. We will always remember the dance parties, pizza get togethers and fun times we had with you and Kelley.
Love
Eric and Dolly
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Heather Cooper posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 25, 2021
My Deepest sympathies to Neil & Kelley's family. I'm saddened to hear what Kelley went through these last few years. She was a beautiful person inside & out; always warm & friendly. I last saw her last year when I ran into her shopping. She had a gorgeous long blond wig on.
I too had the privilege to work with Kelley at LHB. She always had fashionable uniforms and stylish hairdos. But she also was a caring, compassionate, competent, organized and hardworking nurse.
"We are always at our best when we serve others. Be civilized" (Margaret Mead)
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Gord and Earla posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 25, 2021
Gone too soon. Our deepest condolences to Neil and all the family. We will miss Kelley's smile and warm personality. Pizza night will never be the same. RIP Kelley.
Gord and Earla
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Becca Orban posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
My condolences to Neil and all of Kelley’s family. I had the privilege of working with Kelley for a year at the Bowmanville hospital. She was such a joy to work with, bringing such positivity, light and laughter to every day. She will be missed dearly. Rest easy, Kelley.
Becca Orban
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Andre van Zuijlen lit a candle
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
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Dear Neil,
I had already heard that your wife's health was bad. But it was still a shock to learn that your wife had lost the battle with cancer. I wish you a lot of strength in this sad time. Here with our condolences.
Andre, Alexander and Leida van Zuijlen
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Anna - Lucia Mattacchione posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Jackie. May Kelley rest in peace.
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Lisa Kane donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
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Lisa Kane posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 24, 2021
My sincere and deepest sympathies during this most difficult time for all.
Lisa Kane
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Ron & Vi lit a candle
Monday, August 23, 2021
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To our beautiful daughter Kelley who has left such a void in our lives. We don't know how we are going to live our lives without you but with Gods help we will try our best. Rest in peace sweetheart you have earned the right. Love Mom & Dad xo
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Monday, August 23, 2021
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Kelley,
Neil and Kelley created a beautiful home together, a place of tranquility that hugged you in all the right places. Kelley always being the most amazing host of so many of our gatherings. They also gifted beautiful pieces of woodwork, signs etc that have more meaning than anything one could find in a store. Kelley, you had a light that reached so many near and far! I never saw the “ew” that Kelley battled, only our beautiful friend that was so loved and adored. Although our hearts are absolutely broken, I’m thankful for the legacy of wonderful memories, stories and pictures that remain. I have no doubt that Kelley went into her sunset feeling how much she was loved. Healing hugs to all that were lucky enough to know Kelley, especially Neil Bob.
Love and friendship always. Your soul sister,
Kelly xo
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Matt Baker posted a condolence
Monday, August 23, 2021
Dear Neil, Uncle Ron, Aunt Vi & fam
We're so sorry to hear about Kelley's passing. She was a loving & genuine person. I wish we lived closer in times like this. If you need anything, please know we're a phone call away.
With all our love, Matt & Candace xoxoxo
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Annette Martin posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, August 23, 2021
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Jackie, I'm so very sorry to hear about your sister-in-law's passing. May cherished memories of her give you and your family peace and strength during this very sad time.
Annette Martin
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Anita van den Hoven uploaded photo(s)
Monday, August 23, 2021
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Dear Neill and family,
We feel the pain of losing Kelley. In 2018 we visited her and Neill on the estate. We also visited the city of Quebec wilth them. It was een onforgettable experience. We got to know her as a very warm and nice friend. Neill and family, all the best for the difficult time ahead.
Anita en Adrie van Dijk-van den Hoven
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Randy and Maria McDougall donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Monday, August 23, 2021
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Micha Klootwijk posted a condolence
Monday, August 23, 2021
Nephew Neil, I’m so sorry for your loss. Although it may not be of any comfort for now, I’m sure thirty years of valuable memories will remain. Sincere condolences to you and all of the family.
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Angela Johnson lit a candle
Sunday, August 22, 2021
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Neil I am so sorry for your loss I only knew Kelley for such a short time but wish I could of got to know her more. Of what I do know is she was one of the strongest woman I know. Also a wonderful friend to everyone she met. I will always remember the time we spent at the cottage and her kindness . May God be with you and your family at this time . ❤️ Angela Johnson
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Sunday, August 22, 2021
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Dear Kelley..
From cottage visits, to coffee dates and walks, to nursing shifts and long conversations where our men went one way and we went the other- I miss you so much.
Your insight and advice, your modesty and down to earth personality, fun loving, honest and true. Your positivity, strength and warrior attitude that you have possessed throughout these last 6 years - these are the traits I loved most about you. A friendship that has continued to grow since the early 2000’s with so many memories created. May you live on in memory through our daughter Oakleigh Kelliann … love you Kelley ❤️
To Neil and Family…. thoughts are with you… so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️
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Sunday, August 22, 2021
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Kelly I don't even know where to begin, I love you, I miss you. You always said that I was your rock, but no you were my rock... Your inner strength, Your beauty,Your smile i miss so much.... Kelly's 6 year battle with breast cancer was heroic, The strongest person I know... The clinical trial at sunnybrook, was very challenging for Kelley but she wanted to pave the way for other women facing the same circumstances. She was successful. I want to share this with everyone
Neil,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Kelley was a truly special person, and every one of us who helped look after her were touched by her warmth, generosity of spirit, and kindness. She will be dearly missed, and our thoughts are with your family.
This past week, we found out that the paper we wrote about focused ultrasound in breast cancer Metastases, the study that Kelley was in, was accepted for publication. This publication will lead to many trials launched around the world, and is the first step towards this treatment becoming more widely available.
I want you and your family to know that Kelley not only made an impact on the field, that she was a pioneer, a groundbreaker, who’s involvement in the trial directly paved the way for millions of patients around the world to receive this treatment. Her impact, and immeasurable contribution to medicine and cancer research, will live on forever.
Thank you for letting me know, and we and the entire Sunnybrook team are thinking of Kelley and you all in this difficult time."
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Sunday, August 22, 2021
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It is difficult to put into words how I feel about this great loss. Your battle with the cancer was heroic. respect!
It was hard for me to see your struggle from a distance (distance in miles...not from the heart). You are a source of inspiration for all of us. Your strength, perseverance and sense of humor will be missed.
Sincere condolences to Neil and all the family.
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Tracy Lenihan posted a condolence
Sunday, August 22, 2021
Kelley and I worked together at a group home back in the 90’s . We had so many laughs which helped us through many trying shifts. I remember the day her and Neil got married and stood across the street from St. Gertrudes to show our clients Kelley in her beautiful dress. A few years back her and I met up again and it was like no time had passed. I’m so grateful I had that one last visit with her. To Neil and all of Kelley’s family, my heart goes out to you all and I’m so truly sorry for your loss.
Tracy
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Andrew Lisa and Cj Ferguson donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Sunday, August 22, 2021
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Sunday, August 22, 2021
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In April 2019 we visited the family in Bowmanville. During our stay at the house of Neil and Kelley I felt really welcome and got to know you as a warm and spontaneous person. You will be missed. My deepest condolences to Neil and all the family.
Ome Wim van den Hoven, Hooglanderveen - Holland.
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Sunday, August 22, 2021
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Mike and I sending our condolences to Neil and the family. We were so blessed to get to know Kelley through her amazing sister Renee. We could always count on Kelley to be on the dance floor and rocking it out. You are going to be missed by so many people. We will cherish the wonderful memories and you will never be forgotten.
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Saturday, August 21, 2021
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Kelly I don't even know where to begin, I love you, I miss you. You always said that I was your rock, but no you were my rock... Your inner strength, Your beauty,Your smile i miss so much.... Kelly's 6 year battle with breast cancer was heroic, The strongest person I know... The clinical trial at sunnybrook, was very challenging for Kelley but she wanted to pave the way for other women facing the same circumstances. She was successful. I want to share this with everyone
Neil,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Kelley was a truly special person, and every one of us who helped look after her were touched by her warmth, generosity of spirit, and kindness. She will be dearly missed, and our thoughts are with your family.
This past week, we found out that the paper we wrote about focused ultrasound in breast cancer Metastases, the study that Kelley was in, was accepted for publication. This publication will lead to many trials launched around the world, and is the first step towards this treatment becoming more widely available.
I want you and your family to know that Kelley not only made an impact on the field, that she was a pioneer, a groundbreaker, who’s involvement in the trial directly paved the way for millions of patients around the world to receive this treatment. Her impact, and immeasurable contribution to medicine and cancer research, will live on forever.
Thank you for letting me know, and we and the entire Sunnybrook team are thinking of Kelley and you all in this difficult time.
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John & Linda Virgin donated to BREAST CANCER SOCIETY OF CANADA/LA SOCIETE DU CANCER DU SEIN DU CANADA
Saturday, August 21, 2021
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Phil Wilson posted a condolence
Saturday, August 21, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the entire family. We hold the enitre family in our thoughts and prayers. Jen & Phil Wilson
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Saturday, August 21, 2021
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My sweetest Best Friend… you will forever be in my heart and have taken a piece of me with you. I will never forget all our adventures, shopping trips, craft nights and all our coffee dates. You blessed me with so many years of friendship, love and memories and for that I will be forever great full. My house is full of Kelley art pieces and I love that I’m surrounded by you. You will forever be missed by all….❤️
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My deepest condolences to you Niel my heart breaks for you and the entire family. Hold on to all the great memories. I will forever cherish all the the good and sad memories I endured with Kelley. RIP MY BEAUTIFUL FRIEND.
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