Alexx Grave
1991 - 2021
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Dana Blakolmer donated to ONTARIO SHORES FOUNDATION FOR MENTAL HEALTH
Saturday, June 26, 2021
I am so deeply touched by Alexandra's obituary. I don't know you but I feel compelled to reach out and tell you how courageous it is to tell Alexx's story. I am so very sorry for the pain of losing your daughter and sister. I truly hope that the sharing of her story will help other families that struggle with mental health. Thank you for your honesty and bravery. My thoughts and prayers to you and to Alexx.
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Alexciana Nembhard donated to THE HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN
Friday, June 25, 2021
Grave family, I am so deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Alexx. I only had the privilege of knowing her briefly, but believe me her spirit was truly something special.
G, you were like a second mother to me for a long time and I hate to see you go through this. Life is truly unfair. I’m so sorry you & your family are going through this. I think of you always. I love you.
Sending you all my deepest condolences.
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Peter Abrams donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Monday, June 21, 2021
Karen, Steve I have followed Karen's story of Alexx with both grief and admiration. I have tried to imagine your loss and can come pretty close but not nearly close enough I am sure. Please know that Debb and I have you all in our thoughts.
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Annette Koerssena posted a condolence
Saturday, June 19, 2021
Thankyou for sharing your beautiful daughter's truth. Never met her but you introduced this special person to many. Shared your post at a zoom meeting and everyone had already read it and discussed your daughter's life with another. Alex may never know the immense legacy she has left to others. Many, many are praying for your family.
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Derek Giberson donated to THE HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN
Friday, June 18, 2021
Alexx truly was a gift of kindness to so many in the downtown Oshawa population and it was a privilege to know her, both in my role as a local council representative and working at the Mission. My daughter Layla also spent time at Sick Kids while she was with us so in gratitude I decided to donate to Sick Kids in Alexx's memory today. Thank you for sharing her story.
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Jo Ryan donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Friday, June 18, 2021
A powerful and moving eulogy Karen...that we hope will affect at least one life for the better. We are thinking of all of you with love.
Craig, Jo and Carly
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April Jackson donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Friday, June 18, 2021
Miss G - thinking of Alexx and all of you.
April xo
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Susan Thomas donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Thursday, June 17, 2021
Thank you for being so brave and sharing Alex’s story, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Ian Susan and Cole Thomas
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Sabrina Frelix-Brown lit a candle
Tuesday, June 15, 2021
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My condolences to the most selfless Family for sharing your precious Alexx's life to help others. No doubt Alexx's life will not be in vain because of her testimony shared from her Family. There are way too many victims suffering with mental illnesses and leading to drug addictions, homelessness, and suicides. . The awareness is increasing, but at a slow rate. Please keep the faith. I pray that God continue to bless and keep you all close in His bosom for strength, comfort, and peace throughout this most difficult time. May the Perpetual Light shine upon Alexx forevermore. Blessings!!! XOXOXOXOXO's
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Wynne lit a candle
Sunday, June 13, 2021
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So sorry.. may she Rest In Peace !
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Nichole Doughty donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Sunday, June 13, 2021
Karen, Steve, Mackenzie, and Jordan.
I am so very sorry for this tragedy. Thinking of you during this time. XO
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Brad Lockner posted a condolence
Sunday, June 13, 2021
Thank you for the honest and authentic obituary about Alexx. A model for others to realistically honour someone who has died.
Your obituary is a deeply moving portrait of a brave woman whose struggles were monumental. I am passing it on to my co-wokers at The Refuge in Oshawa, a centre for street and homeless youth. Brad Lockner.
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Dave Robinson lit a candle
Saturday, June 12, 2021
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Karen and Steve, Mackenzie and Jordan: Theresia and I send our condolences at the passing of Alex. Your love for Alex was always obvious, and you did the best possible to help her throughout her struggles. We saw this in your Bowmanville, China, and post China years. Please be at peace at this difficult time. Sincerely, Theresia and Dave Robinson
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R. D. posted a condolence
Saturday, June 12, 2021
Thank you for sharing the very real life of Alexx. The memories that we carry in our lives are all that we have. And my hope for your family is that at some point only the very best memories will be the ones you carry, so that you too can learn to return to a life of joy and love knowing that your beautiful girl is still in your heart, alive and laughing. I lost my brother to the darkness of mental illness in 1985. And he died from an overdose in 2005. It is a journey that not many understand. Thank you for showing us Alexx. She is a gift to this world, and I know you fought hard for her and that as a family your love for her is larger then any obituary can show. You have told us her honest story hoping to help. And know that you have helped Thank you.
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David and Mary Pearce donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Saturday, June 12, 2021
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
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Mary Byberg posted a condolence
Friday, June 11, 2021
Thank you for sharing this. I lost my Jenny in November 2016 to fentanyl poisoning. She was the most wonderful kid, and your picture of Alexx reminded me so much of a picture I have of her when she was five. Her life as a person who used drugs was only a part of her, but sadly the thing people will remember first. She was a kind, caring and loving person. My heart is with yours as you begin this grief journey. Sending warm hugs, Mary Byberg
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Deidre Byberg donated to THE HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN
Friday, June 11, 2021
My mom and the kids send their love at this difficult time. Thinking of you all....remembering our trip to Florida and the laughs we had many years ago.............
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Deidre Byberg and Mary Louise Ireland donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Friday, June 11, 2021
We are sending our love and prayers at this difficult time. Your message is so necessary, so powerful, and so poignant. May compassion, understanding and awareness be spread about mental illness and addiction far and wide in memory of your lovely Alexx.
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Robin posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, June 11, 2021
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I was so moved by this. My heart goes out to you and your family. I do have a personal connection. I think this is an absolutely true, important, loving and honest way to honour your daughter. Robin Hunter
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Marie Houde donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Thursday, June 10, 2021
Dear Karen and family,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I am honoured to serve Alexx’s memory through this donation, although a drop in the bucket of the greater need. I am hopeful that Alexx is looking down on you with nothing but love and pride for your efforts to help the community that was there for her in her time of need. Your courage and strength to share her story is inspiring. Sending my love
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Christine Montgomery donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Thursday, June 10, 2021
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AILEEN posted a condolence
Thursday, June 10, 2021
I WAS SO MOVED TO READ THIS HEART WRENCHING STORY, THAT I FELT A GREAT NEED TO SAY , HOW SAD AND HONEST IT WAS. i AM NOT A FRIEND NOR DID I NEVER KNOW ALEXX BUT PRAY SHE IS AT PEACE WITH HERSELF AND THAT YOUR FAMILY, WHOM LOVED HER VERY MUCH WILL REMEMBER THAT CUTE BL;ONDE BABY. AILLEN
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Jill Hockin uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, June 10, 2021
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I’m choosing to hang onto the perpetually smiling, joking, caring Alexx that always showed up for me and my children over the years of annual visits. She had an extra tender spot for my daughter with special needs and lit up for us as we did for her. We will miss you Alexx, RIP sweetie. Love flows to you Karen, Steve , Mackenzie and Jordan!
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Kirsten Schmidt-Chamberlain donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Thursday, June 10, 2021
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Kirsten Schmidt-Chamberlain lit a candle
Thursday, June 10, 2021
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Thank you for sharing the story of your beautiful daughter. It is a wonderful reminder to all that behind the title “homeless” or “drug addict” are real people with real families and real struggles. I’m sorry she couldn’t be reached before this end. Sending you all love and strength!
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Melanie McCloskey posted a condolence
Thursday, June 10, 2021
We have never met but we have walked the same road. I lost my brother to an overdose in early January and it has left my family devastated. It has been a lonely journey in grief. If you haven't lived it people do not truly understand what it is to lose someone to an overdose and the complex feelings and emotions that go with it. I thank you for your honesty in your daughter's obituary , more are needed. So many struggle in silence because of the stigmatism with mental health and addiction. My deepest sympathies to your family. In the arms of an angel may your daughter find peace.
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Jill Rankin pledged to donate to Bethesda House
Thursday, June 10, 2021
I remember her smile/joyous spirit at BHS. Happy to support the Bethesda H. in her honour.
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Emily Sarmento donated to SEDNA WOMEN'S SHELTER & SUPPORT SERVICES INC.
Thursday, June 10, 2021
My deepest sympathies for your loss of Alexx. - Jennifer Bentley's daughter, Emily
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Bettina Brown donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Wednesday, June 9, 2021
Dear Karen, Steve, Mackenzie and Jordan, I was very touched by your message and am thinking of you. Now your first little sweet one, the way you will ultimately remember her, is safe from harm and her soul is free... perhaps dancing.
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JANICE WHEELER donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Wednesday, June 9, 2021
Steve, Karen and girls, please know you are in my thoughts at this most tragic time. RIP Alexx
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lisa dost posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 9, 2021
So sorry for your loss, we do not know each other but I read your facebook post and was so moved by your honesty and your daughters bravery.
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The Becketts donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Wednesday, June 9, 2021
We are holding you and your family in our hearts
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Catharine Lawrence pledged to donate to Bethesda House
Wednesday, June 9, 2021
For Alexx Grave,
beloved daughter of dear friends Steve and Karen Grave.
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Jennifer Bentley donated to THE HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN
Wednesday, June 9, 2021
Thinking of you and sending our deepest condolences....xo
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Helen Patterson donated to THE HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
My sincere condolences for the profound loss your family is experiencing. May Alexx rest in peace.
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Janet and Phil Hume donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
With deepest sympathy as you remember Alexx
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Natalie Hillis donated to ONTARIO SHORES FOUNDATION FOR MENTAL HEALTH
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
To a woman whose message reaches far beyond those who knew her personally. The rawness and vulnerability of her story is an honest example of what it is like to battle the inner demons, tumultuous emotions and detrimental coping mechanisms that also come with the unbeknownst love, creativity and passion of BPD. May her story be mourned, understood and loved while she rests peacefully.
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Sharon posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
Thank you for this call to arms and a call to remember the complex issues that affect the people we love. With prayers for strength and peace for all the days ahead hold. Sharon Wildeboer and family
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Shaen and Bob Yeo donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
Our thoughts are with your family during this difficult time.
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J. Forward and family donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
Please accept our sincerest condolences at this time . Alexx will always be close to her family and friends and those that she touched.
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Krista Ferrier donated to SEDNA WOMEN'S SHELTER & SUPPORT SERVICES INC.
Tuesday, June 8, 2021
I remember Alexx as a spirited, curious and kind soul. My deepest sympathy as you navigate this loss, my heart is with you.
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Evie Elston-Pearce pledged to donate to Bethesda House
Monday, June 7, 2021
May Alexx Rest In Peace ❤️
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Charlotte Van Alebeek donated to ONTARIO SHORES FOUNDATION FOR MENTAL HEALTH
Monday, June 7, 2021
Keeping you all in my thoughts. May Alexx now fly freely. My deepest condolences.
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Karen MacDonnell donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Monday, June 7, 2021
Alex will always hold a special place in my heart as the beautiful, compassionate and funny little girl who wanted to grow up to be a bird. Fly free beautiful soul.
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Al and Linda Chambers pledged to donate to ONTARIO SHORES FOUNDATION FOR MENTAL HEALTH
Monday, June 7, 2021
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Julia Dowling donated to ONTARIO SHORES FOUNDATION FOR MENTAL HEALTH
Monday, June 7, 2021
Thinking about Alexx and the little bird that she was. Take care be well.
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Kaitie & Tammy Willoughby donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Monday, June 7, 2021
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Tara McAslan donated to ONTARIO SHORES FOUNDATION FOR MENTAL HEALTH
Monday, June 7, 2021
My deepest sympathies go to the family of Alexx ❤️
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Mackenzie Grave uploaded photo(s)
Monday, June 7, 2021
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Pete & Dawn Hill donated to THE HOSPITAL FOR SICK CHILDREN
Monday, June 7, 2021
We hope this can help others in the future
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Pete & Dawn Hill posted a condolence
Monday, June 7, 2021
Your tribute to Alexx was wonderful. Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. God bless.
Pete & Dawn Hill
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Mark DuCharme donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Monday, June 7, 2021
Wishing that Alexx's story will lead others to the support they deserve.
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Michelle Albert donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Monday, June 7, 2021
Thinking of all you, with my sincerest wishes for the positive memories you have to comfort you with this tremendous loss.
Duly inspired by the obituary message.
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George and Patricia Dean and Family pledged to donate to Bethesda House
Monday, June 7, 2021
Gone too soon but she will live forever in hearts. Condolences Steve, Karen, Mackenzie and Jordan.
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Laura Burch posted a condolence
Monday, June 7, 2021
Bethesda House sends their deepest condolences to Alexx’s family. Alexx touched many people’s lives and she was cared for deeply. Please know that Alexx was supported and loved.
We are so extremely sorry for your loss.
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Stephen Chrisomalis pledged to donate to Bethesda House
Monday, June 7, 2021
In memoriam Alexx Grave. You are missed!
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Tracey Shevchuk donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Monday, June 7, 2021
In memory of Alexx, daughter, sister, granddaughter, niece, friend, fighter.
Forever loved never forgotten❤️
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Al and Val Larson donated to Back Door Mission for the Relief of Poverty
Monday, June 7, 2021
Fondly remembering Alexx’s visit to BC as a girl. She was so good with our little granddaughter and the horses. Her loss is a tragedy. I’m so thankful for having met her and for your strength in telling her story. We are praying for comfort and strength for you all. Sending love and hugs.
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Amanda Irvine donated to DURHAM MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES FOUNDATION
Monday, June 7, 2021
My deepest sympathies and thinking of you all.
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The family of Alexx Grave uploaded a photo
Monday, June 7, 2021
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